With this query, you can see whitch database that is using most memory
SELECT COUNT(*) AS cached_pages_count ,
( COUNT(*) * 8.0 ) / 1024 AS MB ,
CASE database_id
WHEN 32767 THEN 'ResourceDb'
ELSE DB_NAME(database_id)
END AS Database_name
FROM sys.dm_os_buffer_descriptors
GROUP BY database_id